Hooker makes regular visits to a 93-year-old dementia patient

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Sex worker who makes regular visits to a 93-year-old dementia patient says ‘he tells me what he wants with his eyes’

Emma has monthly sessions with Roger at his care home and she even has the blessing of the elderly man’s family.

And while he struggles to communicate verbally, she said his “blue sparkly eyes” tell her what he wants to do.

She told the Morning Bulletin in Australia: “It’s about friendship, social interaction, emotional outlets – but most importantly, it’s about sex.

“I look at his beautiful blue sparkly eyes and they pretty much tell me everything that he wants me to do.”

Staff at the nursing home know about the visits and encourage them.

She said: “They roll out the red carpet for me because they know the profound nature of this service and what it really means for this client.”

Emma said she has become “very close” to Roger over the past year and talks to him about his past.

She said: “We look at pictures – not sex pictures – of things he used to be interested in and we’ll have a tipple of his favourite drink.”

But most of their communication is through mutual touch.

Emma has had clients with disabilities, throughout her three decades as a sex worker.

Dementia can have a marked effect on sex drive, with some losing their libido while others experience increased desire.

According to Alzheimer’s Australia, those who see a spike in libido may no longer understand “what to do with sexual desire or when or where to appropriately exercise the desire.”

It can be especially difficult if that person has a partner, who may find that they have “unreasonable and exhausting demands” when it comes to sex.

In Australia, the charity Touching Base has been set up to match sufferers with sex workers, often at the request of the family.

They provide a referral list of disability-friendly sex workers.

In Australia, as in the UK, the actual act of prostitution is legal although brothels and soliciting are not.

We recently revealed a Taiwanese charity called Hand Angels has been set up to provide sexual services to the disabled.

Katie Price recently caused outrage by suggesting she wanted to hire a prostitute for her disabled son Harvey. – AAP

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